Popular Nigerian lifestyle influencer, Sophia Egbueje, has stirred reactions online with her recent message to women, where she urged them to begin prioritizing men of faith, morals, and values over those who only possess financial wealth.
In a heartfelt post shared on social media, Egbueje expressed concern over the growing trend of many women equating a man’s financial stability with love, loyalty, and long-term happiness. She stressed that while money is important in relationships, it should never be the foundation of true love and respect between partners.
According to her, a relationship that is based solely on wealth may look attractive from the outside but is often unstable when challenges arise. She emphasized that women should instead look out for a man’s character, spirituality, ability to respect boundaries, and his willingness to value and cherish his partner.
Her words …
“You think having a man with money is everything. But you need a man with morals, a man with boundaries, a man you can trust in your face and behind your back. A man who won’t emba@ass you, a man who won’t play with you or toy with your emotions, a man who respects and values your opinion and recognizes your worth from the start. A man you can pray with, a man of God.
A real man is priceless; the money is just a plus.”
Sophia Egbueje went on to add that women should not allow society to pressure them into thinking that money is the ultimate measure of a man’s worth. She explained that wealth without godly values often leads to disappointment, heartbreak, and instability in relationships. Instead, she encouraged women to pray for partners who will not only support them financially but will also uplift them spiritually and emotionally.
Her post has since sparked different reactions among social media users, with many women agreeing with her stance, while others insisted that financial stability remains a major factor in choosing a life partner. Nonetheless, her message has continued to trend online, opening up conversations about the balance between love, money, and godly values in modern relationships.
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